There vs. Here

Do you have a goal in mind? Something you’ve been wishing would come true for a long time? Maybe it’s making a certain amount of money or finding the perfect partner to settle down with, because you truly believe that will make everything better. You can almost see the light at the end of the tunnel and can’t wait to get there. We skip over the steps because we think they don’t apply as we already “know” what to do. We think the destination is better than here.

But here’s the truth. There is not better than here. If you think having more money is going to make you feel safe and secure, consider the many millionaires who still feel worried and unhappy despite having money. If you think marrying the perfect person will make your life better, consider all the people you thought would stay together forever but have since broken up.

When you put your emphasis on changing your situation and circumstance, you are never in full control of your life. If you are constantly looking to achieve a certain goal or milestone, thinking that will bring you peace and joy at last, I want you to think about the last goal you accomplished and how long that feeling lasted. A few minutes or maybe a full day?

As a physician and life coach, I’ve seen so many people let their lives just “happen”. I don’t want you to be at the whim of someone or something else. I want you to be in the driver’s seat of your own life. You get to choose! This is the best news. It might be scary, but it’s also a beautiful opportunity to change things for good. To be intentional about your life. Because we only get this one chance.

If you are ready to take full control of your life so life starts happening FOR you, not TO you, I invite you to consider working with a life coach. It helped me get out of my comparing and complaining tendencies and it’s why I feel so much better now, living in my truth, every single day. Comment below or send me a message to share what area of your life you want more control in. It's 100% possible, I'm here to make sure it happens!