Why does it matter

I can't tell you how many patients would walk-in requesting an antibiotic or medication to make their ailment go away. Because they didn't want to "deal with it". While these visits were short and straightforward, I also felt like it was a missed opportunity to truly fix things and heal.

And I remind myself to pause and ask, why does it matter? Why can't we just put a bandaid on and go on with life? And the answer is, of course you can. And plenty of people do just that and are totally fine. They may never gain or care to have the awareness otherwise.

Though if you find yourself encountering and struggling with the same problems over and over... Or you say things like "why does this keep happening to me?" and "of course this happened". Maybe it's time to ask why.

For example, after ending a serious relationship, I ended up dating another guy who had the same exact issues. At this point, I realized the common denominator was... me. And I deliberately took time away from dating for myself to truly understand what I was thinking and doing to end up with a certain type of person. Even though it was uncomfortable, I'm so grateful I had the courage and took the time to look within and heal. Because my relationship with myself grew so much stronger and I know I can handle anything that comes my way.

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